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A Warm Welcome: Essential B&B Etiquette for Busy Fall Travelers

Hey there! With Fall being our busy season for the members of the Asheville Bed and Breakfast Association, we’re thrilled that you'll be joining us soon! This time of year brings beautiful foliage and vibrant atmosphere, making it the perfect escape. We want to ensure you have a delightful experience—think of it as your home away from home, where our hosts are dedicated to making your visit as special as possible.


To help you navigate this charming setting during this bustling time, we’ve put together some friendly tips on what to do—and what to avoid—to ensure you have a wonderful stay!

Fall Bed and breakfast wraparound porch.
Pictured Above: Bent Creek Lodge

Why Staying at a B&B is a Little Different

Staying at a bed and breakfast for the first time can feel a little different from your usual hotel experience, and that’s part of the charm! Here are a few reasons why B&Bs stand out from traditional accommodations and what you can look forward to:


Personalized Touches

At a B&B, you’ll often find that the hosts go above and beyond to personalize your stay. From homemade breakfasts to thoughtful extras, such as fresh flowers in your room or local recommendations, it's all about making you feel special and at home. This personal attention creates a warm and inviting atmosphere.


Unique Accommodations

No two B&Bs are alike! Each one has its own character, history, and decor style. Whether you’re staying in a historic mansion, a charming cottage, or a cozy farmhouse, you’ll experience a unique setting that reflects the personality of your hosts and the local culture.


Home-Cooked Breakfasts

Forget the usual continental spread! Many B&Bs offer delicious, hearty breakfasts that are often made from scratch. You can expect a variety of options, potentially including local specialties and fresh ingredients. It’s a wonderful way to start your day and interact with fellow guests and your hosts over a shared meal.


Opportunities for Connection

B&Bs provide a more intimate atmosphere than hotels, which fosters opportunities for meaningful connections. You might find yourself sharing stories with other guests or chatting with your hosts about local attractions and hidden gems. This sense of community can make your stay even more enjoyable and memorable.


Insights from Local Hosts

Your hosts are often passionate locals who know the area inside and out. They can provide valuable insider tips that can enhance your travel experience. Whether you’re looking for off-the-beaten-path activities, the best dining spots, or must-see attractions, their expertise can help you make the most of your visit.


A Focus on Relaxation

B&Bs tend to prioritize a peaceful and relaxing environment. The cozy ambiance, often with comfy common areas and beautiful outdoor spaces, is designed for unwinding. You may find yourself enjoying quiet moments with a book or sipping tea on the porch instead of feeling rushed like you might in a busy hotel lobby.


A Taste of Local Culture

Staying at a B&B often allows you to immerse yourself in the local culture more than you would in a bigger hotel. Many B&Bs highlight local art, history, and community events, allowing you to experience the region in a more authentic way.


A Home Away from Home

Ultimately, staying at a B&B provides a feeling of being welcomed into someone's home rather than just being a guest in an impersonal hotel room. This cozy, inviting environment can make your trip feel more special and memorable.

Pictured Above: Cedar Crest Inn

Essential Do's and Don'ts for Your Stay

To help you make the most of your first B&B experience, here are some essential do’s and don’ts to ensure your visit is smooth and enjoyable:


Do: Share Your Needs

If you have any dietary restrictions, allergies, or special requests, don’t hesitate to let your hosts know ahead of time. This way, they can whip up something extra special just for you! If you’re celebrating a special event, like an anniversary, share the happy news! Your hosts will likely have a little surprise up their sleeve to make your stay even more memorable.


Don’t: Ignore Check-In and Check-Out Times

B&Bs often have specific check-in and check-out times, so it’s good practice to stick to them. This helps the hosts manage their schedules and prepare everything perfectly for incoming guests. You wouldn't want to be the reason they have to rush about!


Do: Connect with Your Hosts

Your hosts have a wealth of knowledge about local gems, including dining spots and hidden attractions. Take a moment to chat—they’ll appreciate it, and you might just uncover some fantastic recommendations to enhance your visit.


Don’t: Overlook House Rules

Every B&B has its own set of rules designed to create a pleasant environment for everyone. When you arrive, take a moment to review them. Following these guidelines will help ensure a peaceful stay for all guests.


Do: Be Mindful of Other Guests

Remember, you’re not alone in this cozy space! Keep noise levels down, especially during the early morning or late evening, so everyone can enjoy their retreat. A soft-spoken chat in the hall might brighten someone’s day, but a raucous laugh could be a little too much for others. Be considerate!


Don’t: Forget to Show Gratitude

A heartfelt thank you goes a long way! If you’ve thoroughly enjoyed your stay, consider leaving a lovely review or even tipping your hosts if they’ve gone above and beyond. Little acts of appreciation can make all the difference for your hosts.


Do: Embrace the Unique Charm

One of the best parts about staying at a B&B is the quirky, individual character each place offers. Whether it’s eye-catching furnishings, stunning architecture, or local art, immerse yourself in the uniqueness of your Asheville accommodation!


Don’t: Expect Hotel-Like Service

Unlike hotels that have staff available around the clock, B&B hosts might juggle multiple responsibilities. Be respectful of their time and privacy, and remember to give them a heads-up if you’re not planning to make it to breakfast—nobody likes a last-minute no-show!


Do: Be Honest About Any Accidents

Oops! If something gets spilled or broken during your stay, don’t just cover it up and hope for the best. Let your hosts know right away. Most will appreciate your honesty and willingness to take responsibility. Accidents happen, and it’s all part of life!


By keeping these unique aspects of B&Bs in mind and following the simple do’s and don’ts, you’re bound to have a wonderful and harmonious experience at any Asheville bed and breakfast. Plus, you can kick back and relax without worrying about chores like changing linens or taking out the trash—now that's a perk worth celebrating! Enjoy your stay!



 

The Asheville Bed & Breakfast Association is a collection of diverse Bed & Breakfasts located in Asheville, North Carolina and the surrounding area. Check out our Specials (updated monthly) and don’t forget your Cookbook, a perfect way to take a little of our hospitality with you.

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